Month: August 2013

I am a gamer

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I am a gamer.

Male Submissive Suspension Art

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Suspension – Male Submissive.  I love this piece- particularly the contrast of bright colour against the dark.  

Male Submissive Art

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One of my favourite images because the guy has long hair, like my sub.  I always wondered why guys cut their hair short.  Long hair is so much prettier.

You have no idea how perfect that sounds :(

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Glad you enjoyed.  It’s not for everyone.  I consider myself very lucky to have found such an accommodating partner.

Hazy Friday

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Was pretty stressed when I got in from work on Friday after a fairly uneventful day.  He saw to it that I was given sufficient cuddling in bed before getting me up. We had a shower, ate dinner. We watched some more Star Trek and had a nice chilled smoke.  Wasn’t much in the mood for playing games so we sat on the sofa for a few hours just watching TV and smoking.

We of course, ended up, downstairs in the bedroom.  I dressed him in a skin-tight latex-look black dress.  He looked divine.  I put some psytrance on and we relaxed in bed for a while.  His skin was sensitive, a beautiful effect of the smoking.  He was aroused almost immediately when I ran my fingers over his cock.  I teased him for a little bit with my fingers, stroking his body through the dress, teasing his cock. I then positioned him on his hands and knees and placed the vibrator underneath his cock.  He proceeded to attempt to lower himself onto it so that he could rub his cock on it.  

I felt the overwhelming urge to spank him, so I let loose my demons for a little bit and proceeded to spank his pretty bottom while he pleasured himself on the vibrator.  At that stage, he was leaking everywhere and moaning.  I wanted to look into his eyes to see his longing.  He looks so incredibly slutty when he’s in this dress.  I laid him down on his back and stayed between his legs.  

I began teasing his cock with my mouth and hands while playing with his little asshole.  He wriggled and moaned when I touched it, I could tell he wanted something inside him, so I got up and got a toy and put it inside his ass.  I rubbed some massage oil onto his cock and proceeded to rub it in the same way I might rub myself if I was masturbating.  He loved it.  He moaned and begged me to let him suck on a dildo as well.  I got him a nice big pink dildo for him to suck on and proceeded to rub his cock and balls, moving my hand up and down.   I kept him on edge for what felt like hours and it literally turned out to be about 2-3 hours.  I wanted him inside me, so I climbed on top of him and fucked him while he continued to suck on the cock and had his little ass full of dildo.  He came harder than I’ve ever seen him cum before.  He lay there shaking for about 20 minutes afterwards.  I cleaned him up and then held him. 

My biggest turn offs

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So the past few weeks I’ve been talking about my sessions and I’m guessing you’re getting a feel for what kinds of things that I enjoy, so today I thought it might be interesting to talk about what turns me off.  Even nympho’s have turn-offs, it’s true!   So here’s my list.

1. Socks in bed.  

It’s just wrong.  Stockings are fine and other lingerie but if you’ve ever watched a porn or been with a guy who just hasn’t taken his socks off, it’s just disturbing and wrong.  Eww.

2. Manly men

Guys who act like “hard men” or “one of the lads” because they’re mindless sheep who don’t know how else to develop their own individuality and personality.  It’s incredibly off-putting. I’m glad I don’t have to deal with these types any more.  I’m not talking about men who are confident in their masculinity, i.e. the types who can sustain a conversation with you, just the types who get on like twats because they feel that it’s a role they have to fulfil or they don’t know any other way of social interaction.

3.  Too much pubic hair.  

I love giving oral,  I love using my tongue and my mouth – I enjoy the taste, so getting hair stuck in my teeth or in my mouth is a bit of a turn-off.   

4. Bad smells

I guess, I have quite a sensitive nose.  Smelly feet, underarms and other areas… can be quite a massive turn off for me.  Shower time and a proper good hard scrub is inescapable. 

5. Silence

I enjoy noise.  I like all my senses to be stimulated during the act.  I’m not saying that there should be constant noise, but I do enjoy my partner making noises which indicate that he is aroused and enjoying himself.  I never understood how someone could be totally silent in bed.

That’s all I can think of for now, although I’m sure more will arise and get added to the list.

Gentle Bonds: Starting Out

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Be you Dom/Domme or Sub, there are a few things you should know as you take your first steps into the BDSM world.

1. Respect. Your partner(s) is/are just that. Partner(s). Respect and consent are crucial. Outside of an Absolute relationship, the word “NO” is always to be listened to. Subs—You do…

Gentle Bonds: Starting Out

Monday again

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How depressing are Mondays?  A whole 9 hours of not being able to touch my beloved’s skin, feel his breath on my neck, kiss his lips and hear his voice. 

I did have a lovely weekend though.  Nothing too over-the-top this weekend, just nice and slow oral, fingering and sex.  I’ll admit to having a bit of a crazy Saturday.  Sometimes horniness hits me like a Klingon in heat (apologies for the Star Trek reference – we’ve been watching a lot of that lately) and all I want to do is jump him and fuck him but, he was already a little worn out from the previous night.  

Managed to go an entire day (sans a cheeky orgasm in the morning) without molesting him too much (I hope). Went for a nap midday which helped clear my thoughts up a little bit.  My libido can be so horrifically overwhelming sometimes…. 

Pampering my sub

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I wanted to do something special for my sub last night.  I spent the whole day planning something nice for him to eat – he’d chosen to have his favourite food: chicken breast stuffed with cream cheese and pesto and wrapped in bacon and garlic fries.  I had that and a cup of tea (he is a major tea addict!) and a nice warm fluffy pink dressing gown ready for him when he got home.

It was a really miserable wet day outside, he came in looking a bit damp and tired.  I helped him out of his clothes and into his cosy dressing gown and sat him down at the table.  We had our candlelit dinner and listened to some Opeth.  It was pretty perfect.  He seemed to thoroughly enjoy the meal.

After that I gave him some time to relax – we watched some scifi and played some videogames together.  I went down to have a shower and let him have some time to himself.  

About an hour before bed I asked if he’d like to go downstairs.  He agreed.  I lay him down on the bed and gave him a nice sensual massage.  This was rudely interrupted by some terrible songs on his random playlist on Spotify which was pumping out some of the most unrelaxing music … almost ruining the mood!  He flopped about a bit and eventually changed it to Marilyn Manson’s  ”Mechanical Animals”…. which surprisingly was perfect for my intention.  It’s kinda slow and sexy.  

I massaged each part of his body with scented oils and teased his cock a little – not too much.  Just enough to keep him on edge for a little bit…. the teasing only lasted about 20 minutes.  I could see him tiring and aching so I let him cum and he shivered around the bed for a little bit.  He ended up lying there, with his eyes closed.  Huge smile on his face.  I felt a deep feeling of satisfaction warming my body as I looked down at him.  I cleaned him up and we cuddled for a little bit.  Then it was time for sleep.