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Some femmes are dominant and some butches are submissive. Some men have vaginas and some women have penises. Sometimes what you call a clit is called a dick by it’s owner, and sometimes a dick is really a clit. Some straight men want to be penetrated and some straight women want to do it. Sometimes people aren’t men or women at all and sometimes genitals aren’t a black and white issue. Sometimes people are different to you, and always, we need to accept this.


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One of the things that always amazes me with some of the people I meet is how they immediately want to play.

I have to wonder at just why someone is willing to let me tie them up and potentially do all manner of horrid things to them – when they don’t know me well or trust me enough to even give me their last name.

Consider, for a moment, exactly what could happen if someone truly sociopathic has the key to the cuffs and a full table of any manner of devices.

If you don’t trust someone enough to give them your last name, have them in your home for a meal, or know intimate details of your life – then you sure as shit shouldn’t trust them enough to tie your ass up.

Wise  words.